Review your most recent misunderstanding

Review your most recent misunderstanding What happened? What did you do well? Where did you overreact? What would you do better next time? Definition of Done (DOD): Before you click done, ensure you have completed your reflection in writing.  

Voice Control

Create a personal ‘No Yelling’ Challenge. Make your husband and kids your accountability partner. You can do 1 or 2…5days depending on your normal yelling control ability. Reward yourself if successful. Definition of Done (DOD): Before you click done, ensure … Read More

Prayer Over Triggers

Write out 1–2 people that usually get on your nerves and what they do. Pray: For understanding on their part For patience and understanding on your part Definition of Done (DOD): Before you click done, ensure you have written your … Read More

Self-Awareness Through Feedback

Ask a loved one to tell you how you react under pressure. Listen humbly. Definition of Done (DOD): Before you click done, ensure you have received feedback and reflected on it.

48 Hours Waiting

When there’s an infuriating issue, wait 48 hours before addressing it. Train yourself to delay addressing matters. As a matter of fact, most very serious issues require more time to think and pray on how to carefully hand it. And … Read More

Personal Anchoring

Choose a peace phrase (like “Breathe” or “Peace”) and repeat it silently during tense moments. You can practice saying it a number of times a day even without issue. Just to get used to saying it. Definition of Done (DOD): … Read More

Avoid Resentment

The goal of anger management is not to bottle up issues but to address them wisely. There are the 3Rs to consider – right time, right state, right words. Always check these 3! Definition of Done (DOD): Before you click … Read More

Use Music to Destress

Anger easily blows up when one is already stressed or tired or having a long day. So one way to handle anger is to handle your mood. Create a playlist of your favorite songs and play it when you feel … Read More

Spiritual Grounding

Start Each Day with Quiet Time: Invite God to help you stay centered and calm before the day begins. Definition of Done (DOD): Before you click done, ensure you have intentionally started your day with quiet time at least thrice … Read More

Breathing Practice

Practice Deep Breathing Exercises Daily; Even when not angry, take a deep breathe through your nose, hold it for as long as you can, then release it slowly through your mouth – 3 breathes at a go. Do this at … Read More